Tuesday, June 23, 2009

What separates the boys from the men... reprise

(Original post here)

Things That Make Someone Attractive:
-Confidence
-Intelligence
-Respect for others
-Tolerance/Openness
-A reasonable amount of mystery
-Some kind of (likable) quirk
-Passion (especially for something unexpected)
-Composure
-Good sense of style
-Care for self and others (physically, emotionally, spiritually, etc)
-Willingness to listen
-Constantly changing (to a degree, of course)
-Grounded (As in, deeply rooted and stable, somehow without conflicting with the above...)

Things That Make Someone Unattractive:
-Lack of respect for self/others
-Unwillingness to take responsibility
-Judgmental
-Lack of curiosity (especially about others)
-Apathy
-Vacuum-sealed into pansy pants and doesn't own a pair of man-pants
-Focus totally on one thing without seeing the bigger picture
-Unwilling to keep things simple
-Won't open up to others
-Manipulative
-Cold, hard, unchanging

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